Help!! My sex drive is making me depressed??
Question: well i have a very high sex drive and i think about sex and masturbate almost every day. i have a bf for almost 2 years and he has a very low sex drive. we use to cyber oftn but a couple of weeks ago we stopped. it makes me very frustrated and i dont want to cyber with anyone else but at this rate i dont know anymore. ive tried every thing to lower my sex drive but nothing helps.. i just want my sex drive to go away so i can be happy i hate having a high sex drive i dont want it anymore. so if anyone can help me plz tell me i really need this oh and plz dont recommend a vibrator
Answers: I have a really high sex drive too, always have. You just need to have a way to control it. There is nothing wrong with masturbating. Is your bf OK with your masturbating? Do you have a vibrator? My hubby likes it when I use mine! Sometimes it even gets him going!!
Talk to him about it if you want the relationship to work.
It might seem like a small problem now, but believe me, it will get VERY frustrating in time.
Good Luck!!
Sorry can't help you with that.
I think you should try to see a doctor if you need such a personal help. Better hear it from an expert than anyone here at a random internet site.
Good luck!
keep yourself busy by doing some activities, to keep it off your mind and keeping it busy. thats what ive been told. sitting at home, doing nothing will make you think about sex more all the time. go out and get involved with something you like besides sex. sex sex sex...lol
i'ts normal, it'll probably go away. if u fight it it'll be even harder to stop
think of things that turn you off, like...your dad naked.
hey email me at olopocram2@yahoo.com and well work it out.....
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or not your choice
I HAVE A HIGH SEX DRIVE TOO AND A REAL MAN WHO WORKS LIKE A DOG; ITS HARD TO BALANCE THESE THINGS....SOMETIMES YOU JUST HAVE TO STEP BACK AND UNDERSTAND WHAT FUSTRATES YOUR PARTNER THEN KEEP ON PLUGGED IN ALL THE MEANINGS OF THE WORD. SEEK BALANCE, UNDERSTANDING AND FORGIVE MISTAKES WITH WISDOM; MAKE THEM PAY WITH EXPENSIVE GIFTS FOR SINS COMMITTED DUE TO YOUR OWN SEXUAL FUSTRATION AND THIER TEMPORARY INABILTY TO ACCOMODATE.
aLWAYS REMEMBER TO COMMUNICATE WISELY AND AT THE RIGHT TIME... THIS IS AN ASSIST TOO.
That is a problem...
A number of people have a high sex drive and so they will label it as normal, but what you have is nothing less than an addiction.
I recommend you stop masturbating completely and focus more on intimacy with your partner rather than raw sex. You may also want to consider improving your spiritual life. Being obsessed with sex is usually a mask for deeper spiritual needs, such as the need to be loved. I don't want to be the type to recommend you to any specific religion or anything, but seeking help from a higher power and having faith that the one who created you loves you is actually the thing that your soul really craves.
Yes, seeing a professional is an option, but chances are it will help minimally, since sex professionals these days are obsessed with sex themselves! They'll see your masturbation and other habits as a normal behavior and just give you tips to help you control it , but the addiction and cravings will remain just the same.
Answers: I have a really high sex drive too, always have. You just need to have a way to control it. There is nothing wrong with masturbating. Is your bf OK with your masturbating? Do you have a vibrator? My hubby likes it when I use mine! Sometimes it even gets him going!!
Talk to him about it if you want the relationship to work.
It might seem like a small problem now, but believe me, it will get VERY frustrating in time.
Good Luck!!
Sorry can't help you with that.
I think you should try to see a doctor if you need such a personal help. Better hear it from an expert than anyone here at a random internet site.
Good luck!
keep yourself busy by doing some activities, to keep it off your mind and keeping it busy. thats what ive been told. sitting at home, doing nothing will make you think about sex more all the time. go out and get involved with something you like besides sex. sex sex sex...lol
i'ts normal, it'll probably go away. if u fight it it'll be even harder to stop
think of things that turn you off, like...your dad naked.
hey email me at olopocram2@yahoo.com and well work it out.....
.
.
.
.
or not your choice
I HAVE A HIGH SEX DRIVE TOO AND A REAL MAN WHO WORKS LIKE A DOG; ITS HARD TO BALANCE THESE THINGS....SOMETIMES YOU JUST HAVE TO STEP BACK AND UNDERSTAND WHAT FUSTRATES YOUR PARTNER THEN KEEP ON PLUGGED IN ALL THE MEANINGS OF THE WORD. SEEK BALANCE, UNDERSTANDING AND FORGIVE MISTAKES WITH WISDOM; MAKE THEM PAY WITH EXPENSIVE GIFTS FOR SINS COMMITTED DUE TO YOUR OWN SEXUAL FUSTRATION AND THIER TEMPORARY INABILTY TO ACCOMODATE.
aLWAYS REMEMBER TO COMMUNICATE WISELY AND AT THE RIGHT TIME... THIS IS AN ASSIST TOO.
That is a problem...
A number of people have a high sex drive and so they will label it as normal, but what you have is nothing less than an addiction.
I recommend you stop masturbating completely and focus more on intimacy with your partner rather than raw sex. You may also want to consider improving your spiritual life. Being obsessed with sex is usually a mask for deeper spiritual needs, such as the need to be loved. I don't want to be the type to recommend you to any specific religion or anything, but seeking help from a higher power and having faith that the one who created you loves you is actually the thing that your soul really craves.
Yes, seeing a professional is an option, but chances are it will help minimally, since sex professionals these days are obsessed with sex themselves! They'll see your masturbation and other habits as a normal behavior and just give you tips to help you control it , but the addiction and cravings will remain just the same.
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